Hello world!
0If you’re here, the site was messed up and eventually I had to start the journal all over again and I am taking the opportunity to steamline and add stuff to the post to make it prettier and hopefully don’t have to do this again. I will slowly get everything back on the site but until the meantime I am far enough to open the site again.
Just be patient. PS, I added a CMA facebook page if you’re there as well.
Articles!: Baseball
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Note: I’m busy but I couldn’t let this past because this situation, if handled properly shouldn’t have ever gotten this far…P.S. I’ll be back soon with new reviews.
San Diego Gay and Lesbian News
Articles!: Collection
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New Campaign To Target Biphobia
“Put a group of bisexuals together in a room and the topic inevitability turns to our experience of biphobia and exclusion,” says Margaret Robinson, LGBT health team member at the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health (CAMH).
Except on rare occasions.
In Gay Softball, If They Ask, Don’t Tell
But just as D.C. was getting awarded the series, Christopher Stoll, a locally based senior staff attorney for the Center for Lesbian Rights, was getting ready for a federal trial involving gays and softball and discriminatory practices.
He’s representing three players who were ruled ineligible to play in the gay softball World Series because they were ruled not gay enough.
Breaking the Silence: Including the ‘B’ and ‘T’ in the Black LG Community
How can the Black LG community continue to largely ignore the needs and issues of our bisexual and transgender brothers and sisters?
Girl Talk: I Always Date Bisexual Men
I never went out specifically looking for bisexual boyfriends. But most of the guys I ended up dating just happened to be bisexual. Almost everyone has a type—the bad boy, the lumberjack, the math nerd. For me, I have always liked bi guys.
Intermission: Bi/Poly List Updated
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Posting again!!! I’m updating now because who knows when this will happen again (updating the list, that is). These movies I’m collecting into the listing I don’t know yet if they actually are Bi and/or Poly in nature until I watch them or somebody out there actually says, nope and tell me why but for now it is there for your viewing pleasure.
- The Trio (1999)
- Menage (1986)
- Straight (2007)
- Triangle (1970)
- Cheating Hearts (2011)
- Now & Later (2009)
- The Talented Mr Ripley (1999)
- When Love Comes (1998)
- El Topo (1970)
- Lust, Caution (2007)
- Species (1995)
- Bad Education (2004)
- The Pillow Book (1996)
- Sex & Fury (Furyô anego den: Inoshika Ochô) (1973)
- Ninja Scroll (1993)
- Brother Born Again (2001)
- Female Perversions (1996)
MReview: Female Perversions (1996)
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Female Perversions (1996)
M/F, F/F
Synopsis:
[Rotten Tomatoes] An outwardly successful woman teeters on the brink of emotional collapse in this psychological drama. Evelyn Stevens (Tilda Swinton) is a skilled and well-regarded attorney who is being considered for a prestigious judicial appointment. However, she’s plagued by self-doubt and neurotic obsessions (the “perversions” referenced in the title), including an obsession with expensive clothes and cosmetics, lingering fears about her relationship with her lover John (Clancy Brown), an exaggerated sense of competition with the new lawyer in her office, and an intense sexual curiosity about Renee (Karen Sillas), the psychiatrist who has just moved into her building. Evelyn is forced to put her own problems on hold for the moment when she learns that her sister Madelyn (Amy Madigan), a Ph.D candidate struggling to complete her doctoral thesis, has been arrested again for shoplifting. In time, the two sisters realize that they have to come to terms with the psychic damage inflicted upon them in their childhood. Female Perversions was based on the best-selling novel by Louise J. Kaplan.
Review:
Warning: This is a confusing review for a confusing movie, I don’t plan on actually making sense. OKAY!
I won’t lie but I had to wait a few days just to understand this movie and that is saying something. I still don’t get it or rather I kind of do but I think I still find it strange too. I find out that this is based on feminist writings and maybe that helped me put this movie into prospective. We have all these women with situations where they all practice a type of “perversion” in their lives, the main character Evelyn is insecure in her abilities and therefore uses artifices such as clothing, makeup and a type of armored professionalism to just get through the day, but inside her self confidence is eroding and it’s falling apart in chunks. She has a long term relationship with a man but starts a new one with a woman (I don’t know why but this relationship becomes transient in nature as well). So while Evelyn is being recognized and getting a possible judgeship, her sister Amy is arrested in a nowhere town for shoplifting, Evelyn does her sisterly duties as a lawyer and tries to get her out but it’s the weekend and nobody is working the weekend in this nowhere town. What we get is the background for the sisters obvious problems with each other and their father.
I think this is where we see how both women adjust not to each other but how family and society influence both women where one is insecure and the other is possibly suicidal.
There are other characters in the cast but I think these other women just didn’t work for me because I couldn’t see their point of view, it was too strange and odd from where I was coming from to understand. Such as the desperate very feminine(maybe in the 1950′s old school way) mother who relies/needs including married men to fulfill her fantasy of belonging rather than caring for her own child and she really doesn’t care take of her child who is going through puberty/”the change” but instead of getting support, she is basically abandoned and left to her devices, such as cutting. The only female the is in the kid’s life is the stripper aunt who is very sexual but doesn’t seem to like men much or has a very cynical view, I think.
The men are insignificant in this story and it is mostly about Evelyn then Amy and both struggle to deal with the shit in the lives from either their family or the outside world. I’m stopping here because this is giving me a headache. If nothing else if you can do better, I suggest you rent or do what I did and watching it on demand, or something similar and explain it to me.
Movie Trailer:
Articles!: Radio Interview
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Note: It played for me, so I’m assuming you can watch this program outside the United Kingdom. At least for a few days.
BBC Radio Manchester: LGBT Citizen Manchester
LGBT Citizen Manchester – Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transexual news from the Village and beyond. Topic: Bisexual Debate referring back to their previous broadcast of Tom Robinson – Getting By. (Pass mouse over post for two links.)
Intermission: Gender in Media
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Disclaimer: I haven’t a comic book in years (More Marvel than DC) so I’m paraphrasing since a lot of people are writing similar distressing point of view towards this topic.
Breaking in from the usual posting because this is interesting. I was reading a gossip blog (don’t judge me, great gossip blog when they aren’t freaking insane) and they posted about the male gaze toward Starfire, a female alien comic book character who is more free love/hippie vibe thing (an adult in the comics but you may remember her from the Teen Titans cartoon as the teenage flighty pink girl) but when DC rebooted recently they cause a lot of problems it seems where Starfire former positive attitude towards sex and sexuality is now more of her sex and sexuality is for the male viewing only and probably jerkoff material. Ex: She does seems to be posing for a swimsuit calender, except she not doing it for the other character in the story, she’s directly looking at her audience.
While reading the blog, someone posted a great article that is explaining this situation in much more detail about not only Starfire but in the Catwoman series of seeing more skin before Selina’s face is shown and an actual Catwoman/Batman sex scene that reads/looks like fanfic.
The Big Sexy Problem with Superheroines and Their ‘Liberated Sexuality’ by Laura Hudson
A couple of days ago, there was another posting with a male’s perspective of what going on in the gaming industry where the females are sometimes no more than projected fantasy material for boys and men and he see could the damaging aspects of why women are not comfortable with this entrenched trend in gaming. (I would have embedded the video but the thing is huge. No different sizes like youtube.)
The Big Picture: Gender Games by Bob “MovieBob” Chipman
Does anybody remember the woman who asked at Comic Con to DC panel why there weren’t more women writers and they blew her off?
All of these are related.
MTrailer: All about Love (2010)
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F/F
Synopsis:
[Mixed] A sharp and funny exploration of the complex world of adult relationships, “All About Love” takes a rare look at the lives of queer women and their specific challenges when it comes to creating a family. After a 12-year separation, bisexual Macy (Sandra Ng), a lawyer with a fear of commitment, is frustrated by the judgmental attitudes of lesbians, but wants to get back in the female dating game runs into Anita (Vivian Chow) accidentally meet at a pregnancy clinic. The two women slowly begin to fall in love again and Macy rekindles the long ago romance with Anita, but her fear of commitment threatens to derail their plans of starting a family together.
Movie Trailer:
Articles!: Radio Interview
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Note: It played for me, so I’m assuming you can watch this program outside the United Kingdom. At least for a few days.
BBC Radio 4: It’s My Story – Getting Bi – Tom Robinson
But then in the mid 80s something happened which changed Tom’s life overnight – he fell in love with a woman! The tabloid press had a field day and he was booed when he appeared on stage at the 1987 London Gay Pride Festival.
In this programme, Tom assesses his own changing attitudes to bisexuality and asks if it’s still a bit of a taboo in Britain today?

